Saturday, 20 May 2017
“The love of a good woman can save a man" I remember Gabriel saying.
"Or it can drive him to fits of unspeakable madness.”
Keep her respect and her trust, you will always have the love of a good woman.
A good woman ought not have to ask, a Good Man already knows... how to keep her happy.
A pretty face gets old. A nice body will change. But a good woman will always be a good woman. And so goes for a good man. It takes a lot of will power and self control for a man to be a one-woman-man.
While you scream at your girl, a real man whispers sweet nothings to her, while you ignore your girl, a real man shows her what true love is, while you break her heart, a real man picks up the pieces, so take a look before you lose out on a real woman!
Men become what you feed them. Feed them with love, loyalty and they will never hover their eyes elsewhere.
Loyalty is stark nakedness in thoughts with each other.
Sunday, 14 May 2017
Sunday, 7 May 2017
Some people can be so affectionate which seems so genuine and then suddenly go cold. Or, you may have begun a romantic relationship that started out promising, but over time compelled you to confront the fact that the other person really wasn't letting you in. Despite all your attempts to "grow" the connection, to make it more mutual and heartfelt, he or she seemed to prefer that it remain as it began--uncommitted, relatively superficial, and impersonal. Any natural progression toward greater emotional intimacy simply wasn't happening. And your trying to cultivate more patience, to cut the other person more slack, or make allowances for their perhaps having an especially "private" nature, ultimately didn't seem to make any difference in your feeling uncomfortably removed from them.
Detached, seemingly preoccupied, and not at all open or friendly, they seemed to hold you at a distance. And if you tried to say something to ease the situation, their response (though not exactly inappropriate) pretty much nullified your efforts. If you take a lot of efforts, you might seem pushy to such people. They cannot cope with the love you have to give them. It is a losing battle you fight.
Nothing can save such people. They hate being answerable, responsible. They are too selfish, become narcissistic or already too hurt. They don't have anything to give to anybody. They don't realize the hurt they cause.
Their no reply is a also a reply.
Saturday, 6 May 2017
When you fall in love with someone, you like everything about them. Deep inside, you sense that this could be someone with whom you could build a life. There's a strong core connection and an undeniable overlap of core values. You have some fear of getting close but your desire to be close overpowers the fear. You're willing to be honest and vulnerable about your inner world.
At times, you get so much love back, that you wonder what they see in you! You give everything up wholeheartedly. They turn your life from a black and white motions of picture into a sky covered by a rainbow filled with colors. They manage to sweep away all the negative clouds surrounding your gloomy heart.
When you love someone so much that all you have to say is -
"I love you for who you are, for all the things you don’t know you can do. I love all the aspects I see that creates you as a being. I can be anything or everything, but all I know is that I cannot live without you. I drool over you! I don’t know if I’m capable of losing you, I will never give up on you because I can’t stand watching you love somebody else. I don’t want someone to make you smile more than I can. That smile of yours is only meant for me and those eyes of yours are only meant to see me. You’re only mine, this may sound selfish but who cares? Mine is mine, so you’re mine. You belong to me and nobody can steal you away from me. Our paths has crossed and that means we were made and meant for each other. I will fight for you in the very end, remember that whatever happens is I won’t give up on you and us. If you asked me why I fall in love with you, I don’t have an answer for that. I don’t why and I can’t explain it. It just happened. I think words are not enough to express what I felt or to describe them to you. I just felt it, I felt in my heart that I love you wholeheartedly. I just love all the things about you and all the things you do. Every time I see you, I say to myself that you’re God’s blessing for me. And, you know what? I don’t want a happy ending with you. I don’t want years. I want a happy eternity with you. I want this love we share for eternity, I don’t want any of this to end. I want them to last for a lifetime. I’ll always love you, no matter how many oceans there are between us. No matter how steep and wreck the hill we’re about to take. Just hold me in your arms and never let me go, I want to spend an eternity with you. I just want you; all your flaws, mistakes, laughs, mood-swings, sarcasm, smiles and jokes. Everything. I just want you. I love you for the first time and I still love you the last time. I will love you until the end of time. And, you aren’t a part of my life. Because you are already my life. I don’t know what will happen if I lost you, it’ll mean that I lost my life. It’s like living, but not actually living my life. Everything would be meaningless. I love you so much. I love you so much that I will cling onto any and every piece of you that I can."
Wednesday, 3 May 2017
“Before I die, I want to stare at the stars with the people I love.”
Yes, "desire" comes from the Latin, de sideribus, from the stars, as Rei says. Yet before that, the Greeks had a belief that every single person was given (or born with) a star. And that star guided their destiny, was their guiding spirit. This is why the Magi followed the star at Jesus' birth. They were following "his" star. The word disaster means, literally, to be de-starred - to lose one's inner guidance, and to therefore fall into chaos.
So equating a love with a star is to also equate that love with destiny and guidance....a very deep and intense matter indeed.
Stars are pretty, other worldly, they twinkle and when you look at the person you like - you see a similar twinkle in their eye.
Some people adore stars because:
Stars are glittering objects beyond their reach and they see the object of their affection in the same way.
I love stars. And I love my star gazer too - who just sees the sheen in me always! <3