Saturday, 4 February 2017

Nano Fiction 48 : Things Men Secretly Love About Their Wives


I cherish her company, her companionship, our conversation, the way she smiles and looks at me. It brings joy to my heart when she cuddles up close to me and puts her head on my shoulder. But she doesn’t stop there, she is always comforting me with a loving caress of her hand on my chest, my back, or my arms.

I love the way she giggles at my silliness and how we laugh together. I enjoy the togetherness we share no matter what we are doing. She always maintains a demeanour that is caring and thoughtful. My wife checks up on me when she is aware that I am sad or feeling ill. She goes out of her way to make dinner even after she has had a difficult day, and she sacrifices for others even when she is lacking. She often takes me out to the movies or to dinner and then pays the bill by her own choice.

My beloved compliments me in the presence of family and friends. I greatly appreciate the fashion in which she inquires me for advice or opinions, how she credits me in my successes, but most of all how she is supportive, putting her trust in me and standing beside me with respect and admiration. However, I also appreciate it when she shares with me her insights, ideas and considerations.

My darling takes time out to send me loving long text messages / emails during the course of her workday, I do treasure her thoughtfulness. I delight in the way she decorates our home and how she likes to share her joys and happiness with me. But also how she expresses the desire to look good for me in the public. My love is beautiful inside and out!

It’s a real joy to see the little girl in her come out to play with me, we often dance together around the house to the sound of our own heartbeats. I enjoy how we can have fun, as a couple, doing the simplest things.

I adore the way she snuggles up to me at the movies and holds on to my arm as if we were on a roller coaster ride, and how she falls asleep with her head on my chest. She also brings me joy by the sounds she makes when I massage her feet.

My wife loves me in so many ways I would have to make notes of them as they are happening, just to put them all down on paper. But my heart feels each loving stroke of her wonderful love.

Things Men Secretly Love about Their Wives

There are certain things about you that your husband finds irresistible. 

He probably won’t brag about them to his friends. And he’s not about to make a gushy post about it on Facebook. In fact, most husbands would prefer to keep this list a secret.

1. You affirm him. 
One of the top things your husband finds most attractive and lovable about you is that you were at one time attracted to him. A man wants to be around a woman who makes him feel like he’s winning. When a wife tells her husband how proud she is of him, how much his hard work has paid off, how much he’s appreciated by his family, and that there’s no one else like him, it says to him that he is cutting it not only as a man, but as a husband. Let him know he’s still hot, he can still get your heart racing, he’s a great provider, he is great at what he does – whatever it is that you can compliment him on. And mean it.

2. You’re a mystery. 
When you become a mystery to your husband, there are things about you that he still wants to know, things you’re thinking that he’d like for you to divulge, secrets in your soul that he’ll be challenged to draw out. Be to him a treasure chest full of secrets he’s dying to unlock! 

3. Your confident glow. 
A confident woman who knows who she is and where she’s going. When you express confidence in your speech, your walk, your body, your mannerisms, and your relationship with him, he finds that attractive.

4. Your initiative. 
A wife’s initiation well after marriage makes a husband feel loved, pursued, and confident. Initiate a hug. Initiate a back rub. Initiate lovemaking. Chances are, he recognizes that he still needs that extra push.  

5. Your positive attitude. 
Your husband loves a positive attitude. When a man can count on a smile or kind word when he walks through the front door, he’ll anticipate his homecoming a lot more.

6. Your dependability. 
In a world where one in two marriages end in divorce , your dependability, steadfastness, and commitment to your husband is something he values more than you know. 

8 comments:

  1. Aw. I wonder what my future hubby would love about me. :)

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